Rejection: a writer’s rite of passage


Nearly five weeks ago, I battled nerves and self-doubt but finally managed to hit send on my manuscript submissions to the editors I pitched to at the RWA Conference at the end of August. A few days after that, I participated in a Twitter pitch contest — an attempt to pitch your manuscript in 140 characters, not an easy task I might add! If the publisher running the contest “favourites” your pitch, you are able to submit it to them and avoid the “slush pile”. My pitch was “favourited” and so I submitted to a third publisher. Since then, I have received rejections from my first two submissions and am waiting on the third.

The first rejection did not beat around the bush. It read along the lines of “thank you for submitting your manuscript. Unfortunately we will not be accepting it for publication and this is why…” I was then given three very clear reasons why it wasn’t being accepted. In short, it had to do with point of view, exposition and character development. 

Now, I’ll admit there was a slight deflation when the word “unfortunately” jumped out at me and started flashing neon, but to be honest, it wasn’t wholly unexpected. I’ve only been writing for two years and I’m under no illusions that I’m a grand master in the running for a Nobel Prize in Literature. I was, however, totally wrapt with the feedback I was given, especially since learning that it’s not so common and should be considered an indication that the editor sees potential. I’m so incredibly grateful to be given professional advice on how to improve the manuscript as I was at quite a loss on how to do this prior to submission.

The second rejection was not quite so comprehensive, though the editor was very encouraging, saying I had “a very assured style that is super engaging and fun and lively to read”. Her reason for passing on the manuscript was that their rural romance list has reached saturation point. A valid reason to reject, particularly if there’s still room for improvement.

Granted, there’s still one publisher to hear from, though I promise not to be completely depressed if it is also a rejection. Since finishing the manuscript, I’ve written a novella (A Healing Hand) and two short stories and it is blindingly obvious to me that my writing is improving.  What I can promise, is that I’ll be revisiting the manuscript and ruthlessly reworking it. 

So, to my readers, my apologies…you’ll be waiting a bit longer to get your hands on A Place to Belong.

And to my fellow aspiring authors, if there’s one piece of advice I can give if you’re preparing your first submissions, it would be to remember that it takes time to hone your craft and learn to be a good writer. You can’t wake up one morning and be a brilliant brain surgeon and the same goes for being a writer. Does this mean you don’t submit? No. But don’t be precious. Take the advice of professional editors on board and learn to be objective about your work. Be proactive: take courses, network with other authors, ask questions and learn to be a better writer. The teacher in me just has to say, take responsibility for your own learning! No doubt, the hard work will pay off in the end.


13 thoughts on “Rejection: a writer’s rite of passage

  1. ingesaunders says:

    Great attitude to have and rejections with feedback I view as one step closer. Someone actually took time out to give me advice. A flat out rejection (which I’ve also gotten) with no explanation, is the worst because you have no way of knowing how to improve the story or you writing.


  2. Zoe Younger says:

    Good luck with the third and so glad you got a ‘good’ rejection. You did good to earn all those lovely encouraging comments. I too screwed up the courage to submit from conference pitches (three requests from three pitches, one for 3 chapters, one for first 50 pages and one for the full ms). The other day I got a “good” rejection. Yesterday I got the third request for the full manuscript. Trying not to think about it. Nerve wracking to say the least. So, plotting and planning for NaNoWriMo and trying hard to concentrate on writing the next book.


  3. Jo says:

    The best rejections give feedback- the worst ones are silence. I had one where they’d calledread the 1st chapter, called for the next 3, called for the lot, emailed me asking me not to submit elsewhere & then 3 months later rejected with a ‘it’s not our policy to provide feedback’ letter. That one was even worse than silence!


      • Jo says:

        The same thing happened with another mainstream publisher for the same book. The rejection I got that time was the best rejection I’ve ever had- “loved it- love the characters & the story and read right to the end… but doesn’t quite fit our list.” I’ve never felt so good about being knocked back! That book became Baby, It’s You…& I hired myself a brilliant editor & decided to do the self-publishing thing.


      • romancingmonique says:

        Well done! We are lucky in this digital age to be able to take that avenue. I thought I would try the traditional route first but have no qualms about self-publishing down the track. I’m glad things worked out for you Jo 🙂


  4. intheirownwrite says:

    The first rejections are the hardest, Monique. When you can step back from the disappointment, as you have, and take the feedback on board as part of learning your craft, your writing will benefit. Be assured that even well-written stories by experienced authors get rejected if they don’t fit with a publisher’s list. Acceptance of any manuscript is a result of the right story landing on the right desk at the right time. The important thing is to keep writing and keep submitting. And eat chocolate, of course.


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